I have been so excited to shoot at Autumn Oaks Event Center for the first time, and was honored that Aries & Will gave me that opportunity. Aries planned most of her wedding from San Antonio- which is quite a feat, but thankfully she had the help of great family and friends. I know that it must have felt so relieving to finally see it all come together. I loved the pinks and navy with the crisp, clean white. Most of all, I loved seeing these two together after the ceremony- they just looked so at home with each other. Thank you so much for the honor of shooting your wedding!
Our baby is growing up right before our eyes. I have to be thankful though- this new season- we were ready for it. Knox can be very shy, and he's a rule-follower like his mama, but over the past couple of years he has really loved going to pre-k and socializing with friends. So, when we dropped him off for his very first day at the "big school", I only had one little I-might-break-down moment.
He sat at his desk after taking pictures in from of the school, hanging up his backpack and greeting his teacher. I squatted down to say, "You are a man of God and Truett Knox Anglin. You are brave. You do not need to worry. God is close, you can talk to Him, and He will be with you all day". I barely got through the last sentence.
Knox, on the other hand just said, "I know", and waved goodbye with a smile. And we parents went out to breakfast- because holy free time batman. Liv and I came home to a quiet house and she walked around saying, "Bubba? Bubba?" for a while. I think we will get used to this. :)
Just a week or so ago Knox decided he was ready to ride his bike without those training wheels. It didn't take long and he was wiggling down the sidewalk, but staying up nonetheless. By the time I got my camera out, he had even perfected the smile as he whizzed by.
It's crazy to watch your kid grow. I really thought I would hate him getting older, but each new milestone has been amazing. I am consistently taught by my children and my selfless husband. I couldn't be more thankful for my friends at Knox's school who have made the transition so easy for us. I know that was ordained and no accident. I am starting to accept change more willingly in life because I know I'll need to depend on the Lord to do it.
I honestly think I could owe half the happiness I've experienced this year to one family- seriously! Kandace and her sister, Haley, were married within 4 months of each other, and it has been so wonderful working with them- I am sure I will miss seeing their faces and getting to celebrate their joys!
Ross + Kandace's wedding was at The Legacy in downtown Lubbock. It was full of gorgeous florals from The Fig & Flower Co., and I loved the light pinks and greens mixed with the classic neutrals and lace in Kandace's dress.
I always love the time I have to photograph the couple alone- during that short period, all of the stress and anxiety seems to melt away and I am truly able to see the relationship. I will not forget seeing the look on Ross's face when it was finally time to be photographed with his new wife- it was obvious he treasures her. There was a peace and excitement about both of them- all the planning and the waiting was over, and now it was time to celebrate and just be married!
I have so many favorites from this wedding- this is just a small portion of them! Congratulations, Ross and Kandace!
Here we go again!
For the last 4 months, when I've not been doing the photographer/wife/mom thing, I've been doing the paperwork thing. I knew when miss Liv turned 1 that we would be ready to focus again on our adoption- that's right, the one we started 3 1/2 years ago.
This step is often referred to as paper-pregnancy, and it is a pretty accurate assessment. The battles of the paperwork process are a thing all their own. It is the first step in the adoption process, but since we have already been waiting for 3 1/2 years, much of our paperwork has expired- so it was necessary to start over. And of course, since this is our second time doing paperwork, when the adoption agency said it would take 4-7 months to complete paperwork, I automatically thought, "yeah, but we will probably go faster". Ha! As if we were the exception. As if, Lissa.
At times, I have tried explaining where I'm at with paperwork, and in conversation peoples' eyes seem to gloss over and then they ask something like, "but you're almost done, right? And then will you get a picture of her?" Ugh. No, paperwork is not interesting. But it's all I've got to tell you about. YES, OF COURSE we want a photo of our child, but that won't come until much later. Please, please don't make me repeat AGAIN that we do not have a picture yet. I'm not mad about it- it's just how it works.
If there is one lesson I've learned so far in this adoption process, it's that THINGS WILL NOT GO LIKE YOU THINK THEY WILL GO.
The second lesson is: THAT'S TOTALLY OK, BECAUSE GOD'S PLAN IS FAR BETTER.
As I said earlier, we are now at the 4 month mark of working manically on gathering random pieces of paperwork. Most of this includes visiting state and government offices, ordering new birth certificates/marriage license (yes, NEW ones- the old ones will not do!), and some documents needed are a much bigger ordeal, such as our home study, financial records and getting physicals (finding a doc who was accepting new patients that only needed a physical took over a month).
Then there are notaries, state certification of documents ($), authentication of documents ($$)- and shipping those back and forth. Thankfully, we have piled up cash in a savings account as we've waited, so it's all been covered! (Thank you to ALL who have helped support us in this way. In stressful moments like these, it is a true blessing to just write a check for it!).
Very soon, our documents will be in China.
Did you hear that? I said CHINA.
That's because our daughter will be Chinese. :)
If you are surprised about that, you better believe we are too.
Guys, God is so good- and His plan is so good. I wrote a blog post when we first started our adoption process. Little did I know that when God set China in our hearts, and He knew that's where our daughter would come from. We just got there by way of Africa. :)
Here's the most basic explanation I can give of how we got here.
Almost immediately after our documents arrived in Ethiopia, referrals (when families are matched with children) almost slowed to a staggering halt. It was rare to see any referrals within our age and gender request, if any at all. There were rumors of Ethiopia shutting down to international adoption- their government even held meetings to assess the situation. Our government put new legislation in place in an effort to ensure more ethical adoptions- which is full of good intention, but for us and our agency, just meant more paperwork, more overall cost, and a longer wait for the orphan.
We trusted that the timing would be perfect and if we had a long wait ahead, that was ok. That's when Liv came along- whose story is its own miracle! We are so, so thankful for her and what she has meant to our family. I was 7 months pregnant when we got the call from our agency asking if we'd be interested in transferring to the China program. They were waiving some major fees (in fact, it was all the fees we'd already paid, and none we hadn't- so we would be at the perfect place to transfer without losing any money), and the wait times were much, much shorter. The only caveat was that it would mean adopting a child with special needs. Knowing we would be welcoming Liv very soon, it was just too much. We decided to wait.
So, after Liv turned a year, we were ready to revisit the idea of transferring. We called our agency again, and sure enough, the offer to waive fees was still available. But what about the special needs? Well, we did our best to gather all the information we could. In China, "special needs" is very different from what we perceive it to be here in the US. We went through a huge list of possible conditions- some of which were eczema and hemangioma (which is funny, because Liv has a hemangioma on the top of her head- so, been there!). We decided on the needs we were comfortable with, and began the paperwork process.
After making the decision to switch, I really thought I would feel relieved, but the truth is, I was just sad. Sad to say goodbye to Africa and the culture we'd spent so much time learning about and anticipating and the dream of having a beautiful brown face and dark curly hair. The process of sorting through those feelings deserves its own blog post later. My soul needs to write about that.
So, here we are! There are still a lot of question marks- we will not know which special need our daughter will have until we receive a referral from our agency. At that point, we will have a certain amount of time to research and consider that child and our abilities and resources to properly care for her. We are very thankful that we have some excellent medical resources here in Lubbock, Texas! Does this mean we are fully prepared? Nope. Will there be surprises? Absolutely. But we are trusting that God will provide for all our needs, as well as the needs of each of our children, just as He has throughout this entire process.
We do not have a quoted or set wait time, but because of our age/gender request, I'm estimating a 6-9 month wait from the time our dossier gets to China. It could be less. It could be more. There is no way we (or our agency) could know for sure. But we do know that the timing will be just right.
Little Zaya Rae was so, so sweet during her session. She hardly fussed, and sat wide-eyed while we buzzed around her. I've had the pleasure of photographing her parents and brother for several years now- and seeing beautiful little Zaya- she is such a perfect addition. Thanks for letting me capture your tiny new addition!
Hannah and Vincent's wedding was perfect in so many ways. The venue, Canyon Springs Golf Club, was just gorgeous. These two were married in front of a huge waterfall on the 18th hole. It has got to be one of the most beautiful backdrops I've ever seen! We soaked up the golden light during their portraits afterward, and the reception was perfectly staged- with a great band, a super-cool photobooth, and a surprise visit from the San Antonio Spurs' Coyote!
Really, though- the best part was the people themselves. Hannah and Vincent were so much fun, and their friends and families are the best! These are just a few of my faves from their wedding. Enjoy!
This wedding was special in the sense that it wasn't just about the awesome couple- Brent and Lea- it was about the new family they were establishing that day- if you saw their engagement session you were introduced to sweet Emily, who never takes a bad photo. :) I couldn't get over Brent's reaction to seeing Lea for the first time in her dress, or his reaction to seeing Emily in hers- or Emily's reaction to seeing Brent + Lea together- it was all pretty fabulous. These three fit together so perfectly- and the celebration they had was perfect!
This was my first time to shoot at the new venue Bella Vie here in Lubbock- and oh my goodness, the natural light inside the building was so wonderful! It also helped that Brent + Lea had a pretty incredible team of decorators (Imagine If out of Midland) making sure everything looked perfect.
Brent and Lea could not have been nicer or more gracious- and all the while there was so much going on, you could see that they were truly excited to be married. The three went on a pretty epic trip to Hawaii that I oohed over via Facebook- which they totally deserved.
Thanks for trusting us with your wedding photos- congratulations!
One of my favorite parts about being a wedding photographer is that inevitably, at some point during the wedding day, it hits me- this is is a truly special event, and I get to be a part of it! I actually had several of those moments on Phillip + Michelle's wedding day.
These two are so intentional and true romantics- it was easy to be caught up in their love story. The way they approached their wedding day made it so special. Michelle had hand written notes for almost everyone involved that day, and each wrote their own vows which were so full of love and grace. Phillip + Michelle were married just a couple weeks ago at First United Methodist Church here in Lubbock, and their reception was at McPherson Cellars. Rain threatened all day long but held off just long enough for us to get photos and some beautiful cloud coverage.
We so enjoyed being a part of this wedding and couldn't be happier for these two! Congrats!
Ryan + Bailey had a perfect wedding at Spirit Ranch. These two kept everything so consistent with their style- which made for a very laid-back, fun event.
Bailey wore her mother's wedding dress- which was so, so perfect on her. She walked down the aisle with bare feet which is perfectly Bailey. I loved that these two asked their guests to keep from photographing their ceremony so that they could truly be a part of it- you would be amazed at how many phones and iPads I have to work around during the average wedding ceremony. They also let their wedding party sit on the front row during most of the ceremony- which made it really intimate and special. This is the first wedding I've ever shot where the bride and groom played rock, paper scissors to see who read their vows first! It was cute and a perfect representation of these two.
At the reception, guests played yard games while they ate delicious breakfast for dinner (such a genius idea!). I was thankful the couple let us steal the for a few minutes to get some portraits with the setting sun. Excited for these two! Congrats and KCCO!
I have been so excited to share these images with you. Jonathan + Kara's wedding was at the Christoval Vineyards & Winery just south of San Angelo, Texas. You guys- this place is beautiful- and worth the trip if you like to sip. ;)
Jonathan and Kara are a truly carefree, fun-loving couple who seem to draw everyone in and make them feel important and welcome- and that is exactly the feel that their wedding day had. Add to that a perfect blush pink Monique Lhullier wedding gown, the most gorgeous spring florals accompanied by some golden antlers- perfect for a Texas couple- and you have one amazingly beautiful day. The ceremony was officiated by Jonathan's cousin, making it extra personal- and in lieu of a unity candle, the couple chose to plant a tree using soil from each of their hometowns- the perfect way to symbolize a new beginning.
These two chose some stellar vendors and people to make their wedding day happen- and we loved getting to capture it all. You guys- isn't Kara just gorgeous?!? Enjoy these!